API: Use strict comparison in array_equivalent_object with deprecation warning

[Aniketsy]

• closes API: be stricter in array_equivalent_object #55492 (Replace xxxx with the GitHub issue number)
• Tests added and passed if fixing a bug or adding a new feature
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This PR updates the array_equivalent_object logic to use strict comparison (strict=True) when comparing arrays.
Please let me know if my approach or fix needs any improvements . I’m open to feedback and happy to make changes based on suggestions.
Thankyou !

[Aniketsy]

Hi @jbrockmendel
After enforcing strict comparison in array_equivalent_object, I’m seeing several test failures due to the change in behavior.
should i add a deprecation warning to notify users about this stricter comparison or do i need to update the tests.

[mroeschke]

Thanks for the PR, but going to close this PR awaiting more discussion in the issue