Bump tolerances for per_sample_grads tutorial (#3487)

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Resetting changes in favor of: #3462

* Bump tolerances for per_sample_grads tutorial

* Update build.sh

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Co-authored-by: Svetlana Karslioglu <svekars@meta.com>
Co-authored-by: sekyondaMeta <127536312+sekyondaMeta@users.noreply.github.com>

Author: 3 people

intermediate_source/per_sample_grads.py

@@ -169,7 +169,7 @@ def compute_loss(params, buffers, sample, target):
 # results of hand processing each one individually:
 
 for per_sample_grad, ft_per_sample_grad in zip(per_sample_grads, ft_per_sample_grads.values()):
-    assert torch.allclose(per_sample_grad, ft_per_sample_grad, atol=3e-3, rtol=1e-5)
+    assert torch.allclose(per_sample_grad, ft_per_sample_grad, atol=1.2e-1, rtol=1e-5)
 
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 # A quick note: there are limitations around what types of functions can be